April 23, 2017
Stetson Memorial UMC
Sermon Series:
“Mending
Fences-Healing the Heart…”
“A Season of Healing”
Adapted from Marcia McPhee’
“On the Mend” Sermon Series
Psalm 16 HCSB
James 5:16-17 MSG
Matthew 17:1-5 GNT
Psalm 107:19-21 NLT
“A Season of Healing…”
The Lord be with you
And also with you
Let us pray (Prayer that God’s Word is heard
through me or in-spite of me)
Please stand for the Gospel of Luke, chapter
5, verses 17-20. Listen to the word of God from His love letter to His beloved,
you and I…
Jesus Heals a Paralyzed Man
17 One day when Jesus was
teaching, some Pharisees and teachers of the Law were sitting there who had
come from every town in Galilee and Judea and from Jerusalem. The power of the
Lord was present for Jesus to heal the sick. 18 Some men came carrying a
paralyzed man on a bed, and they tried to carry him into the house and put him
in front of Jesus. 19 Because of the crowd, however, they could find no way to
take him in. So they carried him up on the roof, made an opening in the tiles,
and let him down on his bed into the middle of the group in front of Jesus. 20
When Jesus saw how much faith they had, he said to the man, “Your sins are
forgiven, my friend.”
She walked into the room not
sure what she was looking for or needed. People greeted her with smiles and
they tried to make her feel as comfortable as they could. But she had been her
before. She had been in this same setting and didn’t like the outcome. But she
decided to give it one more try…there had to be a place where she could go.
But then it all started all
over again. Their intentions were “good”, so they thought. But in her eyes
their intensions were something that was dark and frightening. She was afraid
to talk with them because she wasn’t sure just how to explain her feelings. So
she silently sat in the corner.
The others just thought she
was just “the quiet type”. They were proud of the way they had let this new
comer in and they thought that they were open and loving…so proud of that fact.
They were the “best” group in the area and no one could even come close to what
and who they were.
Months past and the girl
started to attend the group less and less. Some of the members noticed she was
not there. They started blaming each other. “You weren’t very nice to her
anyway. You didn’t offer her a hand when she said she needed help moving. I
have seen this happen before in this group…I know it is his/her fault.”
The more they argued the
more they couldn’t see the look in the eyes of the new comer every time she
came to the group. She felt that she couldn’t trust the people of the group
because every time she spoke to one person…they shared with another…then
another until what she originally said was nothing like the end words.
The girl finally gave up and
never went back again. She still looks today for a place where she can call
“home”. She just wants to be in a place where she feels loved, safe, secure and
valued. She is wanting a place and a people she can call family.
Good
morning. This morning I want us to be
interactive with each other. I need audience participation. So please play
along as the Spirit leads…In the story I just shared with you, what stands
out for you? Give time for answers. What
stands out for me is the fact that she is still looking for a place to go.
We
as Christians know the place to go…just as the men did when they lowered their
friend in front of Jesus. In fact, they even carried him to the roof, made a
hole in the roof and lowered their friend down…from the ceiling…for him to be
where he needed to be to heal what ailed him.
We,
as the Psalmist in Psalm 107 verses 19-21, know what happens when we call out
to God. Let’s read this together…please
turn to Psalm 107 in your bibles and read these verses together…
Psalm 107:19-21New Living
Translation (NLT)
19 “Lord, help!” they cried
in their trouble,
and he saved them from their distress.
20 He sent out his word and
healed them,
snatching them from the door of death.
21 Let them praise the Lord
for his great love
and for the wonderful things he has done
for them
We
cry out to God and He helps, He saves, He heals and He loves.
So,
if we have this Truth, why do people turn away from our churches? Why do people
think they are better off without the healing of Jesus? Interactive time. I really want to know what you think…
In
the story from this morning, I see sort of a pattern here. This might help us
to understand what happened in this group.
1. Their intentions were “good”, so they
thought. They wanted to be a group that was known for their
lovingness…so to speak…they may have even tried too hard because they were
proud of their status.
2. So she silently sat in the corner. No
one seemed to wonder why the girl sat in the corner. They didn’t go over and
try to interact with her.
3. They were proud of the way they had let this
new comer in and they thought that they were open and loving…so proud of that
fact. Maybe…just maybe…they were a little too proud of
themselves. To the point that they couldn’t see the hurting right in front of
their face.
4. They started blaming each other. “You weren’t
very nice to her anyway. You didn’t offer her a hand when she said she needed
help moving. I have seen this happen before in this group…I know it is his/her
fault.” And now comes the
blame game. Instead of finding the underlying cause of the issue, they just
blamed each other.
5. The more they argued the more they
couldn’t see the look in the eyes of the new comer every time she came to the
group. They were so enveloped in themselves that they forgot
about what they were so proud of themselves for. They didn’t notice the damage
they caused to the outside.
Now
the girl did bring stuff to the group of her own:
1. But she had been her before. She had
been in this same setting and didn’t like the outcome. She
already came with a very suspicious mind. She probably thought that all the
groups were the same no matter where she went. Quite the defeatist attitude…
2. But in her eyes their intensions were
something that was dark and frightening. Still emotional
baggage from before that probably was never addressed.
3. . She was afraid to talk with them
because she wasn’t sure just how to explain her feelings. It
is hard to explain feelings of fear, mistrust, hopelessness, despair… But there
needs to be a place where we can come together and talk about our feelings.
That is why she still is searching…even today.
So
why have I told you this story today? The reason I have shared this with you
because we as Christ church need to have conversation of what ails us. What is
hurting inside of us. What hold us back from living the life, individually and
collective, that we are offered through Jesus. How will we do this you may ask
yourself.
Over
the next few weeks we will be talking about some of the things that ail us…that
stop us from living that life in Christ. We will be mending fences and healing
the heart with one another. And there may
be no fences that need mending but we are all broken. What in us needs mending?
In
the bulletin, you will find the breakdown of what we will talk about each
week…what mending we will talk about. My hope is that we will have that
conversation that will lead to healing. Not only that but after the service
each Sunday, I invite us to have further conversation…living room conversation
with each other in the green room with a little coffee…a little snack and I
hope a whole lot of conversation and mending. We will put ourselves in front of
Jesus where we can be healed. There will
be a week that my friend Margaret will come for you to have conversation with
her of what ails your heart.
Conversation
is hard but it is vital if we want to be that vital congregation for Christ. We
need to do a heart check to be the heartbeat of God in our community. James 5,
verses 16-17 tells us:
16-18 Make this your common
practice: Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you
can live together whole and healed. The prayer of a person living right with
God is something powerful to be reckoned with.
So,
I ask that we prayerfully come together…as family…to heal what ails us. Let us
become that group that the girl would feel comfortable. Remember, she is still
out there looking. Maybe…just maybe…she will come through our doors.
Amen.
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