May 21, 2017
Stetson Memorial UMC
Sermon Series:
“Mending
Fences-Healing the Heart…”
“Healing Pride”
Adapted from Marcia McPhee’
“On the Mend” Sermon Series
Psalm 66:8-20
Mark 9:30-37
Proverbs 16:18-19;
Philippians 2:1-4; James 4:6-10
“Pride Cometh Before…”
The Lord be with you
And also with you
Let us pray (Prayer that God’s Word is heard
through me or in-spite of me)
Please stand for the Gospel according to
Mark, chapter 9, verses 30-37. Listen to the word of God from His love letter
to His beloved, you and I…
(Read Scripture from the NIV
Bible)
As Hope and Joy walked their
way to Joy’s house, they began to talk with one another. This is really the
first time they had since they met and they were both nervous, not wanting to
offend the other. “So, Hope, where do you come from?” Joy asked. “Oh, from
here, there and everywhere. We never settle into one place when I was a kid.
Always moving around, never knowing where we would wind up next.” Hope
answered. “Oh, that sounds like so much fun. My family is very rich and we
always had to make plans when we went places. We never just went and just moved
like you did. We went to places like Spain, Rome, China, we even went on a
safari in Africa… It was fun but I think what you got to do was more adventurous.”
Joy explained. “You must have enjoyed it very much.” “Not really” Hope
explained, “We moved because my dad couldn’t hold a job so we had to keep
moving. We would lose our home and had to find a new one when my dad got a new
job.” “Oh wow, too bad.” Joy went on, “I had the perfect life, so to speak, I
got to go anywhere and do anything I wanted to do. We always had a beautiful
home and never went without eating like some people do… How about church? Do
you go to church?” Joy asked. “Well I haven’t found a place yet that
accepts…well me for me…” Hope answered.
Hope was starting to worry
about her new-found friend. She seemed to be talking a lot about herself and
how perfect her life was. But, Hope decided not to judge her friend…she had
been on the wrong side of that equation too many times. Joy continued “Well you
haven’t tried my church. It is perfect. We accept everyone. We have many
ministries that reach out to those people on the street. We feed the hungry and
clothe the naked. We have 3 services on Sunday, 1 on Wednesday, a prayer
meeting on Thursday and…”
Hope started to walk away… “where are you
going” Joy asked. “Away from you” Hope answered, “You are too “perfect” for me.
For the past 30 minutes, all I have heard about is what you have done and where
you have been, how perfect your church is and all those “people” you reach out
to on the streets… Guess what, I am one of those people and I think you talk a
good talk but you are not walking the walk. You think that you do soooo much
but what I need is someone who cares about me not for me…I can care for myself
thank you very much.” Joy was appalled, “What do you mean all I do is talk
about myself. I am very proud of who I am and my church and what we do. There
is nothing wrong with that.” Joy said through tearful eyes. “Maybe you are a
little too proud. So proud that you don’t even see the ones you claim you are
trying to help. Maybe if you thought about where your gifts come from, where
your security comes from…your real security and gifts come from…maybe you might
just think and see differently…” Hope turned and continued to walk away…
Good
morning. This morning I want us to continue to be interactive with each other
as we have been. It has been wonderful
the past few weeks sharing as we have with teach other… I need audience
participation. So please play along as
the Spirit leads…In the story I just shared with you, what stands out for
you? Give time for answers. What
stands out for me is Joy and what she was proud of. It is not bad to take pride
in things but when you lose sight of where it all comes from we can tend to be
“pride-full”.
As
I have said, we as Christ church need to have conversation of what ails us.
What is hurting inside of us. What hold us back from living the life,
individually and collective, that we are offered through Jesus. We need to give
our whole life over to Christ…everything that ails us…in order to be the
relevant Christians. We need to let go and let God as we move forward as God’s
people and take hold of the land. If we don’t, then why do we even call
ourselves Christ followers if we can’t follow His example in the world because
of what is ailing us? If we are to live our lives as Resurrection people we
need to act as if we have risen from the grave of the world around us. All too
often we are stuck in the tomb with our comfortable “death cloths” …leaving those
things behind that bind us…and put on the robe of righteousness that we receive
in and through Christ.
We
are continuing to talk about some of the things that ail us…that stop us from
living that life in Christ, as we mend fences and heal the heart As I have said, there may be no fences that
need mending but we are all broken. What in us needs mending? My hope is
that we will have that conversation that will lead to healing. Not only that,
but after the service each Sunday, I invite us to have further conversation… There will be a week that my friend Margaret
will come for you to have conversation with her of what ails your heart. Conversation
is hard but it is vital if we want to be that vital congregation for Christ.
We
have talked about intentions and the fact that, whether we like it or not,
there are times when our intentions …our good intentions…may be not so helpful.
At times that our “religious laws” keep us and others away from the blessings
and peace that God intends for us to have.
We
talked about those times that our inhibitions keep us from being open to
others. How there are many things that cause us to be closed off to the very
ones that Jesus came to save…including ourselves. Jesus us is calling us to be
“open” …our eyes our ears, our hearts, our hands…to those around us who may
feel closed off from others.
Fear
is one of the biggest things that keeps us from being who God would have us be.
Fear of the future, fear of finances, fear of those who may come through this
door…Maybe even the fear of Hope as she
is walking through our door…
Another
thing that at times keeps us from being the light we are called to be is the
sickness of “pride”. Pride can cause us to do a lot of crazy things…even making
ourselves lord of others… We at times can think that…well to coin a phrase…our
“poop don’t stink.” Being proud is not really a bad thing…we should take pride
in what we do. What are you proud of in your life? Give time to answer. I am proud of my daughters but do I believe
they are perfect and above reproach? No, we are all broken and imperfect. I am
proud of how God has made them who they are and that I got the chance to help
God, with His leading, bring these girls up… I give God the praise for it all.
In
the Mark scripture, we hear the problem of pride. The disciples were arguing
over who was the greatest of them. Jesus waste no time in correcting them on
their emphasis on self. He brought in a child…pretty lowly…nothing
special…children were seen and not really heard back then. The farther was the
one who spoke for the whole family. So why do you think He chose a child? Give time to answer… A child is the last
rung on the ladder. Pride really got in their way and Jesus had to make sure
they understood the ways of heaven verses the ways of man.
You
can see pride…the sickness of pride that is…just about everywhere you look
these days. My question is this, do you see pride in the church? In other
words, do you think it has a problem with pride and why? Give
time to answer… Ok…how about the church here…our church…do you think it has
a problem of pride…? Give time to
answer... How about the people within…? Give
time to answer.
What
does god say about pride?
ü Proverbs
16:18-19-18 Pride goes before destruction
and haughtiness before a fall.19 Better poor and humble than proud and rich.
ü Philippians
2:1-4-Is there any such thing as
Christians cheering each other up? Do you love me enough to want to help me?
Does it mean anything to you that we are brothers in the Lord, sharing the same
Spirit? Are your hearts tender and sympathetic at all? 2 Then make me truly
happy by loving each other and agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, working
together with one heart and mind and purpose.
3
Don’t be selfish; don’t live to make a good impression on others. Be humble,
thinking of others as better than yourself. 4 Don’t just think about your own
affairs, but be interested in others, too, and in what they are doing.
ü James
4:6-10-6 But he gives us more and more
strength to stand against all such evil longings. As the Scripture says, God
gives strength to the humble but sets himself against the proud and haughty.
7
So give yourselves humbly to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. 8
And when you draw close to God, God will draw close to you. Wash your hands,
you sinners, and let your hearts be filled with God alone to make them pure and
true to him. 9 Let there be tears for the wrong things you have done. Let there
be sorrow and sincere grief. Let there be sadness instead of laughter, and
gloom instead of joy. 10 Then when you realize your worthlessness before the
Lord, he will lift you up, encourage and help you.
God’s
word is clear about pride and what it can lead to. What do you think the cure
is for this sickness that ails us? Give
time to answer…
Beloved
children of the Most High God. Jesus is calling us out of our tombs of what
ails us in to His Glorious Light and be healed. What is ailing us…as a
church…as individuals…as one body? How can we be on the mend, of fences and our
hearts? I know that there are things we just don’t want to talk about…there are
things that we just don’t want to hear. But should we let fear stop us from healing
what ails us, personally and collectively? What if hope came through our door? Would
we boast about our accomplishments of lift up God’s name and what He has done? I
ask that we prayerfully come together…as family…to heal what ails us. Let us
become that group…that people…that the Hope would hear about the goodness of
God and what He blesses us with so that she too can receive the goodness and
grace and be healed and loved. Maybe…just maybe…she will come through our
doors. The question is…are we willing to let her in…?
Amen.
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